I understand and I accept that I and no-one else is perfect. And I wouldn’t want to be. It’s not what life is about. People change and grow throughout their lives, sometimes to the point where they are beyond recognition. That’s not necessarily a bad thing. They learn to use their own minds and create their own opinions. Boundaries are chosen by the person themselves rather than those around them and what others expect. People change as they grow up and there’s nothing we can do about it. But our friends stay our friends for life if you’re lucky. They grow with you, and yes you agree less and you become increasingly frustrated at times as new opinions clash. It’s just the way it is. Life means a different and abstract thing to every person. One may want to get married and have kids, the other may want to be a complete adrenaline junky. The only issue is you have to make these choices yourself and choose what you think is best for YOU. My friends have been with me through the years where I have changed the most as a person. A lot of my feelings and opinions and actions have changed. They’re still there. And they’ve changed too. I love them still as much as I always have. It just becomes more difficult the more complicated the life as an “adult” becomes (even though I certainly don’t see myself as an adult yet) Being a grown up can suck. It says that in like every cheesy teen film, people don’t want to grow up. It’s true. But I genuinely think if you can make the right choice for you without hurting anyone, you can really reduce your chances of being a cat lady who works as a sex line operator.  Unless you make that choice yourself. Away out and do what you want. And I know that this is the cringiest post ever and I’m kinda hoping no one notices it too much, but these choices you make, in my opinion, are what really gives you a sense of freedom and independance. Having the courage and drive to choose your life for you.